12 May

Caught In The Middle: Our Only World. The Kindness Movement.

by Jon Katz
Caught In The Middle

In our present political atmosphere it is assumed that everybody must be on one of only two sides, liberal or conservative, left or right. There is this belief that there are only two ways to look at every issue in the world, and there is no compromise, no listening, no trust, no quarter. The other is the enemy, not to be  pitied or heard.

It doesn’t seem to matter that neither of these two labels signifies much in the way of depth or freedom of thought or individual thinking, which is, to me, the cornerstone of liberty. Neither label can claim absolute truth or honesty or intelligence, and both seem paralyzed in the face of so many complex issues that face the world. They seem to exist mostly to stand in opposition to one another and create the illusion for a stupefied people that they have real choices.

What a mess they both have made of things.

I am quite proud to refuse to label myself or accept the labeling of myself by others.

Like any person who likes to think for him or herself, I get messages every day accusing me of being a liberal, or a conservative each writer convinced he knows better than me who I am and what I am. it is like I am being accused of a crime.

It is uncomfortable to be caught in this middle, I feel claustrophobic and am suffocating.

It sometimes feels that I am in some Kafkaesque nightmare where free and personal thought is simply no longer tolerated or acceptable. We are in the Coliseum, we have to fight one another while the crowds roar in front of their screens..

In our world, how you vote is who you are and everyone feels obliged to define  you. Perhaps that’s why there seem to be no revered. great thinkers running around in America any longer, their minds are just too big for two small and petrified schools of though, they can’t really be tolerated.

And no one can pass all of the litmus tests of dogma.

I want something new. I need something new.

If you read the news, it’s all bad.

If you look around, there is a great deal of good, a great awakening, away from Washington and the media, I see it and hear it all the time, every day.

You will never see it on their news, which seems bent on dividing us and keeping us apart. The know that  if we ever really all get together, they are done. The comedian was right, the real  scandal is that they pretend to hate each other, when in truth, they are happy to use each other to line their pockets.

In my work with refugees and the Mansion residents, I find myself marching along with an Army Of Good, people from all across the country, left and right, whose primary ideology is kindness and empathy, two values the left and the right have left out of their policy platforms and never seem to mention.

Recently, I have begun following the preaching of the Rev. William Barber, a pastor from North Carolina calling for a new era of moral transformation. He is suddenly very popular.

He is, more and more, being compared to Dr. Martin Luther King and his very famous Poor People’s campaign.  Like King, the Rev. Barber is eloquent, fearless and committed to helping people, even as he decries governments that seem to care nothing for people, or most people. He is sparking a new Poor People’s Campaign, a national moral revival of empathy and compassion.

He has King’s moral clarity – it is about what is right, not what is most profitable – that is so rare and so exciting.

He doesn’t talk in the stifling language of the left or the right, he talks about the cruelty and greed in a system that hurts the people, leaves them to die without health care,  remain mired in poverty, and which will not lift a finger or spell a dollar to help the poor and vulnerable. That is a moral issue, he preaches, not a policy argument between the left and the right. This in a country spending billions of dollars for new “stealth” jet fighters to make and sell to a world awash in guns.

The Rev. Farmer is quite the radical, he thinks government should be helping to lift the poor, and that every sick person should have access to health care. He is leading this movement for a moral revival, and he has millions of people marching along with him, black and white, Christian and Jew and Muslim, just like Dr. King had. He seems to be rising  rapidly.

When I peer outside of the friendly confines of my farm, I see an adolescent and narcissistic culture of wishful thinking, eternal arguments, debates about policy,  and absolute positions.

If you follow the ideologues of the left and right,  you come to see they are much more alike than either side would like us to believe, they require or demonstrate no knowledge, little regard for facts or truth or science, no effort, no cost, no bewilderment, no hesitation, no hard and painful moral choices.

One woman I know well messaged me smugly  that she was fighting for justice, every day, she even put up a  Facebook page. Otherwise, she didn’t seem to leave the house, she said she had no choice, she was too busy.

Between these two warring moralities fighting for political dominance, the middle ground is so battered and bewildered – this was until recently the space most Americans and communities occupied – that there is almost no middle ground at all.

I am caught in this foggy space and the walls are closing in.

I see two cultures that seem almost equally willing to disagreed the truth of human suffering and the very thought of compassion. In an overwhelmingly Christian country, we seem to have lost touch with the founder of the largest faith, Jesus Christ. If there was one continuous and compelling narrative in Christ’s life, from his first sermon to his last, it was to reach out to people in their great need and try to help and heal them.

In the Gospels the soulfulness of all humans is profound and assumed. It was their needs that had to be addressed. I now see needy people almost every day, they cry out for mercy and justice.

Jesus’s ministry was to the needy, and neediest  always took precedence over sin.

His kindness was not qualified or restricted, there was no label or moral or political test for the vulnerable, no work requirement or derision, no character tests.

From the earliest Christians, there was this idea of great kindness – the binding together of the earth and all living things, human, plant,   animals, the water and the air. We were to be stewards of Mother Earth, her caretaker and protector. That would be a wonderful idea for a moral  revival. I’m in.

“Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other…” Ephesians 4:32.

Gulping for air in the middle where I live and breathe,  praying the walls don’t come any closer, despairing sometimes that they will, I do see a new way, a new moral crusade for kindness, a new  way of looking at the world that would bring much happiness, joy and good feeling.

How wonderful to be freed of the evil pleasure of despising other people and ideas.

I see bright lights at the end of the tunnel. Our two warring ideologies are fading, overwhelmed by change and need. I hear footsteps of the new centurions, marching towards us.

“This is my simple  religion,” said the Dalai Lama. “there is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.”

I can join that religion.

12 May

Bingo! The Night Wayne, The Rascal, Tricked Us.

by Jon Katz
The Night Wayne Tricked Us

Wayne has more fun in his wheelchair than most people have in their ordinary lives. He was in a good mood Friday night, sporting one of the new colorful tie-dyed T-shirts we got him a couple of weeks ago. He is, I think, a love child at heart.

Much of the fun Wayne loves to have is at my expense, if possible. Wayne loves to plot tricks and surprises on me, and last night, Maria.

When we came in to call the regular Friday night bingo game, Wayne was smirking and blocking the door. The wooden bingo balls, the ones we use to call the numbers, were missing he said, they had disappeared from the activities room. This alarmed both of us, who headed down the hallway before we heard Wayne guffawing and laughing, and tell Red with great delight, “we fooled them, didn’t we Red?”

Red seemed delighted wagging his tail and getting excited (for Red.) We came back and Wayne was pointing to a corner of the dining room where he had hidden the cage where the balls from which the wooden numbers are turned and called, as one ejects from the bottom of the cage.

Wayne was beside himself for having tricked us, he was laughing and chuckling all night.

Wayne teased me about the trick and then taunted me as I called the bingo numbers. If he didn’t get his numbers, he yelled out, “new caller, let Red do it!” I think Red is on all this. You can write Wayne at the Mansion, 11 S. Union Avenue, Cambridge,, N.Y., 12816. He loves getting letters, but he doesn’t have full movement of his arms, so it is difficult for him to reply.

The other residents of the Mansion who would like to receive your letters are Bob, Allan, Winnie, Jean, John, Alanna, Peggie, Ellen, Joan, Brenda, Jackie, Sylvie, Alice, Madeline, Mary, Blanche, Bill, Diane, Helen, Debbie,  Dot, Ruth, Kenneth, Gerry, Guerda, Wayne, and Matt.

12 May

For Saad, A Wall Map Of Arabia

by Jon Katz
Arabian Wall Map For Saad

Last year, a reader of Maria’s blog send her this linen wall map of Arabia, Maria has donated it to the Saad project, it is heading for his bare living room wall.

My friend Rachel Barlow also brought me an Arab-English dictionary that will help him learn English in his new apartment building – he is the only resident in this very large senior building who speaks Arablc.

When we get his new TV hooked up and cable installed, he will have access to arabic TV channels.

He is working hard at learning English, he wants to find work if his health will allow. I love this map, it is perfect for his new apartment. There are also four framed prints coming and two original water colors. I will be providing details of this work all week, including on Wednesday, when we bring many of these new things to him.

Gratitude And Loneliness

We cannot run his life or pay for it, either, nor do we want to. We can help him be safe and get started on his new life in America, someone no one bothered to do when he came her, rushed out of Ira to keep him  from religious extremists who had targeted  him for working in the U.S. Embassy during the war, and then abandoned.

We are setting it right and helping to give him the start he deserves, he is a good and gentle man. Thanks for coming along on this journey. He has not come to harm us or take our jobs.

12 May

A Radio For The Saad Project

by Jon Katz
A Radio For Saad

A warrior in the Army Of Good sent me a new RCA Superadio III and asked me to bring it to Saad, an Iraqi refugee,  this week when I go to see him in his new apartment.

We are bringing a number of things for him, and arranging to get him a cellphone, cable service, a 32 inch screen TV, some additional groceries and some watercolors donated by an artist in Vermont.

The person who sent the radio asked me in advance if it was okay to get it for Saad (thank  you for asking) and since she didn’t give me permission to use her name yet, I will protect her anonymity.

Thanks to another generous person, we will be able to support the monthly cable and phone fees for a year. I think that will help get Saad stabilized and acclimated,and there are some other refugees with urgent problems that need our help. I bought the television.

Maria is donating  a  beautiful linen map of Arabia for one of Saad’s walls. We’re looking into buying him a bus pass. Thanks so much for your generosity and support. We are keeping good alive and affecting people’s lives. Refugees suffer enough before they get here, they don’t need to suffer here.

I believe we are saving lives and also keeping hope alive. Thanks for your support.

12 May

Good News! Hannah Gets “Tied” With Knox. Fingers Crossed!

by Jon Katz
Hannah with Maria

Gus’s mother Hannah was bred with Knox, his father.

This morning, I got a text from Robin Gibbons saying “positive attempt. Got tied. (the breeders term for sex) .Will try again later to make sure.” Hannah was standoffish for a couple of days with Knox, but decided to breed with him this morning, the old-fashioned way.

No artificial insemination for this crew.

We went over to Robin’s house today to see Hannah and congratulate her. Knox had gone home to rest.

We won’t know for a month if she is pregnant or not, the odds are pretty good. We love Hannah, and we were so impressed with her we decided to get one of her puppies, which led to Gus.

Robin and Maria and I both use the same vet, the Cambridge Valley vet.

I think Robin will try breeding with Knox one more time to make sure, but we feel pretty optimistic. We’ll know sometime if June if the breeding was successful.

If it was, then the puppies will be born sometime in August, and be available to leave the litter in October. Robin agonized about whether to breed Hannah again, but she decided to go forward, and we are glad she did.  There are different theories about the cause of megaesophagus, the disease that killed Gus.

It is very rare among Boston Terriers.

Some researchers think it is genetic, some think it’s a virus, others think it cause by anesthesia, which Gus had just before he got sick. The truth is, we just don’t really know. We know plenty of Boston Terriers living on farms around here, and they lead long and healthy lives.

We will take our chances, as people do every day when they walk outside of their homes or go to work. We do not live in fear or assume the worst. We do not live a life of warnings, now epidemic on social media.

Hopefully, this will permit Robin to leave this painful experience behind her. I think we have already.

So we are excited, for sure. I’m eager to continue the small dog experiment, and Hannah is one of the sweetest and neatest dogs we know, she is also a great mother, just as Robin is a loving and thoughtful breeder.

Five months is a long time to wait, but it will be worth it, and we already have everything we need. It will be fun to spoil another dog.

We will have something to look forward to all summer. Thanks for coming along on this trip.

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