8 September

Sakler Report: At The “Office.”

by Jon Katz
At The Office

I met with Sakler Moo and Ali at our “Office” at the Stewart’s Convenience Store in Schaghiticoke, N.Y. this afternoon. He just finished his orientation at the Albany Academy, and he feels comfortable and at ease in the school.

Classes haven’t started yet.

I wanted to meet with him privately and talk about how we would work together over the next few years to ensure his privacy and also raise the money for our share of his tuition and costs, between $5,000 and $6,000 a year.

We both agreed that I should see him once a month – anywhere of his choosing, school, home, my farm, our “office.”

I said I didn’t need to see him at school every time, or even often I now thought it best to keep that private, we could meet periodically at his home or elsewhere to talk about how he is doing at this private school, considered one of the best anywhere.

The family was upset last week by an aggressive reporter who approached Sakler at the school without permission. The school called Ali who said no permission had been given. So we’re talking about how to protect Sakler from this kind of intrusion in the future.

Sakler is shy but very self-possessed.

He doesn’t rattle and doesn’t want to be treated any differently than any other student. And of course, he wants to feel just like any other student, not a “refugee” student in need of help and attention.

He said  he is completely comfortable with me and trusts me, he will be happy to talk to me and be photographed any time and at any place. He said I have never made  him uncomfortable or uneasy.

I said that meant a lot to me, I wouldn’t abuse the privilege, I know he needs lots of space and support to deal with this enormous change. I also know he can and will handle it, and I told him we will do our part and support  him as quietly as I can.

I said people do need to see him periodically and he said he understood that. “I am grateful,” he said.

Ali came with him, and we are all planning to have dinner next week in Albany, my family, Sakler’s family, Ali’s family, including his legendary mother. We are excited.

Ali’s mother has loved belly dancing all of her life, and she and Maria are very anxious to meet one another.

I feel very good about Sakler, I believe we have more than $2,500 in his tuition fund for 2019 (Maria and I are going away from Sunday to Wednesday morning) and I hope to have the full amount in the bank over the next few weeks if I can.

We are not seeking any further support from the school or from anywhere but the Army of Good.

We will do this ourselves., in part so Sakler can enter into this new experience and not have to worry about where he is going next year. His money is in a special bank account that cannot be used for any other purpose.

Sakler is an impressive person, I am proud and delighted to support him, and I thank you all for helping to do this. We are doing good, and in the right way, I think.

If you wish to contribute, you can send a donation to me, Jon Katz, P.O. Box 205, Cambridge, N.Y., 12816, or via Paypal, [email protected]. Please mark it “Sakler Moo.”

Federal regulations now require that all monies coming into me must have my name on the Payable to line – these accounts are registered under my name – people can write out what the payment is for anywhere on the check.

The money will go precisely where you want it to go, the account will be audited monthly  by a bookkeeper and an accountant in New York City.

How great this feels.

8 September

Carol And Us: On Getting Help

by Jon Katz
On Getting Help

We had dinner with Carol Gulley again tonight (next week it’s at our farmhouse) and we enjoyed it. We laughed, talked, did some reflecting on Ed Gulley’s death a few weeks ago. It is still raw and fresh, and as it typical of Carol, she wondered why she was feeling it so acutely.

it was nice, which we expected, but it was also fun, which we didn’t expect.

Carol is farm tough, she doesn’t really believe in any kind of weakness or disorientation or self-pity. I asked her if she had ever called anyone for help, or asked anyone for help in the night, when she sometimes is lonely and hears things, or misses Ed the most.

She look at me directly, and was confused. No, she said, she just never thought of asking for help in her life, and never thinks of it now.

In my world, people call therapists for help and support all the time, but in the farm world, you just put on your boots and get to work. Life is too demanding to stop and ask for help.

Carol says she has good friends she could call, and she also knows she can call us, but she just never thinks to do that, it is not in her experience to get help or ask for help from anyone outside of her experience.

I urged her to give it a shot.

It isn’t that she can’t function without help, she can and is. Carol is plenty strong and plenty tough, she has the farmer’s stoicism, life throws a lot of things at the them, and they endure. Still, sometimes everyone could use a bit of help. She listened, we’ll see.

She said she is struggling a bit to find inspiration for her writing, this, I told her, is completely natural, it’s only been a few weeks, she needs to take her time and grieve in her own way.

The writing she has been doing on her blog, the Bejosh Farm Journal,  has been quite lovely lately,I think, honest and thoughtful. It is coming, and will come in its own time.

Don’t rush it, I said. You are a writer, and writers always find a way to write. There was a lot of laughter in that kitchen tonight, and a lot of feeling. Next time, I’ll do the cooking – scallops, I think.

8 September

Great News: Meet Bud At The Open House!

by Jon Katz
Meet Bud At The Open House

It is looking more and more likely that Bud will be completing his long and difficult journey and come home to us on September 29th, the day after he gets his microfilaria test for baby heartworms on the 28th.

That’s more than a week before our October Open House.

It is illegal to transport a heartworm dog  who has not completed treatment and has been certified healthy by a vet. And it should be, heartworm is now in every state in the nation, and it is a lot less expensive to prevent heartworm than to treat it.

If all goes well, Bud will be here to meet people at our Open House, held on Saturday and Sunday, Columbus day Weekend, October 6th and 7th, from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. both days. Maria has been preparing art to sell for months.

Red will be strutting his stuff, and Fate will be doing nothing in her spectacular and joyous way. The theme is the Art Of Rural Life.

We will also have sheepherding, sheep shearing, spinning, poetry readings (I’ll be reading from Mary Kellogg’s new book, “This Is My Life,” and there will be readings by Jackie Thorne, Amy Herring) and Maria’s wonderful art show in her studio featuring her work and gifted local artists.

Details on Maria’s site.

I’ll be giving a talk also, focusing on Bud’s story and the animal rescue movement.

I am so grateful to Carol Johnson of Friends Of Homeless Animals for rescuing Bud, and for getting him up here. She is an angel. And we are grateful to Dr. Jonathan Bradshaw of the South Arkansas  Veterinary Clinic, for getting him healthy again. He is a vet with a great big heart.

Gus was purchased by FOHA after he was found suffering from starvation and exposure in Arkansas.  he was in rough shape. He is a Boston Terrier. FOHA is transporting him North on a giant FDA approved truck.

We can meet him in Brattleboro, Vt., where the truck stops, it is 90 miles from us.

We will continue his follow-up treatment up here at the Cambridge Valley Veterinary Service, where Gus was treated for megaesophagus. They are waiting for him.

So are we. This will make the Open House even more special for both of us. I remember how happy Gus was to meet all those people at our Open House year. This seems very healing to me, and just right. The wheel turns and turns.

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