Frieda by the fire, her favorite place

Many people say they love dogs because dogs love them unconditionally, a precious thing in our lives. I understand the idea, although I see it a bit differently. I like to think of the love as conditional, although it’s hard for me to imagine my dogs not loving me, no matter what I did to them. In addition to their love, my conditions are this: I have to be good to them. See that they are thoughtfully chosen,  loved, healthy, trained, exercised, given proper medical care and made as comfortable as possible.

I feel the same way about human love. It is conditional to me. I have to be a good supporter, partner, lover and friend. I have to be thoughtful and patient, honest and flexible. I want there to be conditions. From the dog’s end, they are generous. They love the humans they attach to, and live in their service.