27 August

Happy Birthday, Robin

by Jon Katz
Happy Birthday, Robin

Today is my first granddaughter Robin’s first birthday, and I sent her this dress this week without even realizing it was her birthday, there is so much going on in my life. I wish her nothing but love and meaning in her young life, I am touched and inspired by her good cheer, enthusiasm for life, and ready smile.

I think it will stand her in good stead. Robin has enriched my life, brought me closer to my daughter, brought me much love and laughter, I do seem to be surrounded by loving creatures these days, human and animal, and I suspect this says something about my life that is hopeful and revealing.

I believe loves comes when one is open to it, and not before. I learned that lesson the hard way, but I learned it. Anything that you love that comes into your life is a treasure, and so far, Robin is all about love. She embraces life with great enthusiasm and joy.

I’d like to go see Robin over the next few weeks, I’ve seen little of her in the past few months. Her arrival in the world has not altered my life or sent me swooning to the moon, which is, I think a good thing.

Robin has her full and good life, and I have mine, and I am not yet clear on what we will mean to each other.  So far, we are keeping our boundaries and that feels healthy.

I will call her today and wish her a happy birthday, but I am mindful that this is not yet something of much meaning to her, if anything, and birthdays are not a big deal for me either.

I am richer for Robin, and my heart lifts when I think of her. That is no small thing, and I look forward to getting to know her better. She is a sunshine child, for her, and I like that dress on here.

27 August

Friends

by Jon Katz
Friends

Fate and Gus have become inseparable pals, they sit out in the yard together, chase each other around, play tug of war, and last night, Fate came over to Gus while he was sleeping in a corner of the dog bed and they took a nap together. It was a sweet thing to see, Gus is just a puppy but he was somehow something Fate needed and it feels like he’s been here for a decade. He’s an old soul, really, in a young body.

The border collies and Gus make a nice mix, really, all are hyper and energetic but in very different ways. That is a surprise to me, there has been no trouble among the dogs, they are a tight little pack. Red presides over this calmly and with no fuss.

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