Bedlam Farm Blog Journal by Jon Katz

7 May

Congratulations Sue, The Return Of The Florist. You Did It.

by Jon Katz

The thing about rural life and small businesses usually amounts to this: there are too few people, too little money, and too many state and septic regulations.

Some people have done it, but that’s rare.

Many businesses went along with family farms when the government decided they were too inefficient for the global economy. Sue Lambertini quit her first shop for personal reasons. She decided to take a significant risk and do it again.

Sue has pulled it off, and good for her. I love to write about good, kind, and quiet people who take on challenging dreams and succeed against the odds.

My acquaintance with Sue was casual, and I didn’t know how her new business was doing until the convergence of Mother’s Day, prom, and wedding seasons breathed new life into her business—The Cambridge Flower Shop. It seems everybody in town needs flowers.

I find myself visiting her shop, not just to say hello and bring along my dog Zinnia (who is always welcomed with open arms) but also to find that one unique flower.

I decided to capture this in a photograph (above). I also buy chocolates from her and give them to Walgreens’s hard-working pharmacy aides.

Sue’s store has advanced my flower photography season by several months—many of the pictures you’ve seen come from her shop.

Soon, I’ll have some of my flowers in my garden bed, but in the meantime and almost certainly beyond,  Sue has become a valuable source of beautiful flowers with enchanting colors for my photography as I wait for the warm weather to plant some of my own.

If she has to throw out a beautiful flower because it stayed in the store too long, she’ll sometimes offer it to me. Otherwise, she has a great instinct for what I might like. I usually buy one or two flowers at a time.

We’ve become friends, and I am happy to see her business take off. She isn’t rich and has no powerful backers, but she is a hard worker and a gutsy one.

She was very anxious at first, and I could see why.

The life of a florist is complex. Flowers can only sit around briefly; they must be sold quickly or discarded. And they can’t return what they can’t sell. It seems like Russian roulette to me, and then there’s fierce competition online from websites that take orders and payments online and ship them to buyers.

When Sue orders a lot of flowers, she gets nervous—this happened in Easter—hoping they will sell. She puts a lot on the line, buys a lot, and sells almost all the flowers she orders.

She has worked hard and long days since the beginning, and she has become one of those success stories I love to write about—good guys beat the odds and win in a small town. She is one of the good guys.

She had one advantage – she was known and liked from her first shop.

Sue Lamberti was the only florist in town seven years ago; I bought flowers from her then. She was shy and quiet then, and she tells me now that it was a difficult period in her life. I knew nothing about that and still don’t.

Sue closed the first flower shop in 2017. I didn’t know her well, but I loved her flowers and bought them for myself and others.

After that, she went off my radar, and I was surprised a few months ago when Maria and I noticed that a flower shop had returned to town at the intersection of the hardware store, Walgreens Pharmacy, and Cumberland Farms.

A flower shop had been in that spot, but we had yet to notice it, and suddenly, there was a new one. It had a full and appealing window display and an outside stand, and it gave off a lot of energy.

This was something to be noticed.

After driving by for a dozen times, we went in there. We loved the place, and we loved Sue.

Sue recognized me before I recognized her, but I was happy to see her back.

She was much more animated and charismatic than I remembered (so was I, maybe), and we connected and immediately became friends. Of course, I wasn’t in such good shape either then.

She was interested in my new relationship with flowers. I admired her for having the courage and determination to start a new business in our small town, a notorious graveyard for small business owners.

This morning, when I went in to say hello and scout her flowers, I knew I had to return and take a photo of her surrounded by Mother’s Day, prom, and wedding orders. She hardly had space for them and worked day and night to prepare her orders.

There are no extensive media reviews around here, no slick ad agencies, wealthy backers, or Internet marketing specialists. She’s had to do it on her own.

Two people in the store work with her and are both busy: Linda and her friend Michael.

She’s even getting orders from Vermont, and the phone is ringing all day.

I thought this was it. Sue had made it. She still gets nervous sometimes, but she is also excited and relieved all of the time.

I see it as a victory for the quiet people, the good, hard, hard-working people who have a dream and make it come true.

Congratulations, Sue, you did it, and you earned it.

7 May

Sarah’s Choices For Today: For Less Than Three Dollars, You Can Help Hundreds Of People (And Many Children) Eat What They Need And Want

by Jon Katz

It’s a day of great value for the Army Of Good. Pantry Director Sarah Harrington has selected two items that her “customers” want, need, and often can’t find at the Cambridge Food Pantry.

Sarah is innovative and practical. She always considers the costs to other people’s pocketbooks and searches for bargains and the best food at the lowest costs.

Your contributions, no matter how small, have made a significant difference. I don’t have the heart to pass up making so many families very happy for less than $4.

The first is Amazon Brand Happy Belly Grated Parmesan Cheese Shaker, 8 Oz., for $2.96.

The second is Progresso, Italian Style Bread Crumbs, 15 oz. $2.17.

It was with great pride and joy that I learned yesterday that the Army of Goods’s total donation for April was 3,828 pounds of goods and products, a significant increase of 800 pounds from the previous month. Small acts of great kindness can add up to great things. We are becoming a permanent part of the pantry story

This is a testament to your generosity and the impact it’s making. Thank you, thank you.

Sarah said it was “crazy good” news.

It may seem like a small thing to donate, but one of the mothers in one of the pantry families told me it is a big thing to her and her kids. (She texts me to thank the Army of Good and me for the food they are getting. We try to get what the pantry can’t get or afford.

Flavoring food is so important,” one of the pantry family mothers texted me, “especially when you haven’t been able to do it for months or years. We are very grateful to see some cheese shakers and bread crumbs. They mean a lot.”

It is a message to the pantry families and, beyond that, to the outside world. Compassion and caring are a part of us all, no matter what you see on the news. America is a country of great heart.

7 May

Tuesday Morning, May 7, 2024. Dogs, People, Poppies: Fixed Points In A Spinning World. Love Makes Me Happy…

by Jon Katz

I’ve learned in recent years that love makes me happy. I came to see that the problem with the suffering people who sent hateful notes online is that they seem humorless to me, devoid of love or empathy.

Once I realized this, I stopped answering them and trying to talk to them or be hurt by them.  I just deleted them, and they have all gone away. There were lots of lessons for me in that.

The tendency to run away from suffering is intense, but that was just another form of suffering, I came to realize. Imagine doing that all day?

The Internet has made hatred easier,  more open and possible.  But it has also opened my eyes to many things, including the idea that they are suffering, too.

(Zip is in the middle of everything we do. He has assimilated and acclimated; it seems he’s been there for years.)

I am happy, and that is because I am learning to love the things in my life – Maria, my writing, my photography, the dogs and Zip, the donkeys and sheep, my farm, and my efforts to do good. Think about it: can people who write nasty messages to strangers be happy?

I don’t think so. The prophets say that compassion always makes people happy on both ends,  giving and receiving, and so does making other people’s lives a little bit better. I looked at the news this morning and saw some angry politicians insulting one another.

Happiness is a choice; I just had to learn to work at it a bit.

Can there be any joy in that? From the looks on their faces, it seems unlikely. Can they be happy? It seems silly to say it, but hatred doesn’t make people happy. They suffer. It seems obvious, but it is one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned in a long time.  I depend on fixed points—Maria, Zinnia, Zip, and nature—to keep me content in a spinning world. My photography has opened my eyes to life—and flowers, too—especially lately, flowers and the gift of Spring.

Spring comes on suddenly here; the pasture looks lush and beautiful.

I bought a Hydrangea flower today at the Cambridge Flower Shop. Sue Lamberti is up to her neck in orders for proms and weddings. This florist shop is really catching on. Good for her; it’s much deserved.

Zinnia is a happy creature; she does not change, get depressed, watch the news, or listen to politicians. There is much to learn.

My poppies are popping in my garden bed. Here we go.

6 May

Flower Art With A Vengeance! Tulips, Roses, Violets, And More, A Tribute To Color And Light And Beauty.

by Jon Katz

I was out in the sun doing a light of fiddling with my 205 MM leica lens. It left me happy but tired, so I’ll say good night and see you in the morning. I was thrilled to be alive today; there is so much beauty in the world; it wraps me in a cocoon and envelops me sometimes.

I’m happy to share this beauty with you; it is uplifting and humbling. We got wonderful news – see below – the Army Of Good total donation for April was 3, 828 pounds of food and products. That was 800 pounds more than last month, and we are just getting rolling.

I’m going to the food pantry tomorrow to see when the food comes in. I might bring the monochrome, which is my atmosphere camera.

 

I’m much enjoying watching these tulips unfold, red and pink and yellow, beautiful and emotional all over. Meditation flowers for sure, or just nice to sit and look at.

I didn’t know how much pink would emerge from the tulips. I’m going to watch closely every day.

Miniature roses, but quite striking.

 

African violets

 

This beautiful white rose is preparing to depart; I give her thanks and appreciation; she gave me a lot of beauty.

6 May

Wonderful News, The Army Of Good Sent The Cambridge Pantry 3,828 Pounds Of Food In April, 800 More Than In March. Wow

by Jon Katz

Sarah Harrington, the director of the Cambridge Food Pantry, texted me at 5:35 p.m. Monday with this message: “The Army of Good total donation for April,” she wrote, “was 3,828 lbs of food and products.” I asked her if that was good—I’m new to this—and the answer came back quickly:”That is almost 800 lbs over last month! It’s a crazy amount.

It’s a beautiful amount, and there are no words to thank you all enough. The Army of Good is not just a dream but a reality. You always come through.

I’ve never had the privilege to meet most of you; the Army of Good is a powerful army scattered all over the country, gathering to do good rather than arguing about what good is. I wish you could see and hear the gratitude from the Pantry volunteers and the 144 families that came to the pantry one day a week ago and another 173 backpack children.

I hope this news fills your hearts with as much joy as it does mine and, more importantly, the hearts of the struggling families who are desperate to feed their loved ones. Your actions are a beacon of hope, especially during these tense times. We started the Army of Good because we wanted to do good rather than fear or hate one another. It worked. People are eager to do good when given the chance.

(above the food back packs for children, we are stuffing the bags to the hilt.)

 

This is the correct political statement—we are showing the world our hearts and what they can mean for others. This is the America I know and love, the biggest-hearted country on earth. Here, we are all coming together, all kinds of people with all sorts of ideas and opinions, but we share one thing. We are here to show our love and care for one another in need.

I need to say how much I admire Sarah Harrington. She invited me to advocate for the pantry and has given me the encouragement and freedom to be myself. She gets me, and she gets you. I appreciate that. I’m going to the pantry tomorrow when the weekly food truck arrives.

I’ll have my camera.   I’m learning a lot, but I want to learn more about how a food pantry works. This is the triumph not of money or power or politics but of something much deeper: love and compassion.

I will keep this going for as long as possible, and I hope you can join me for as long as possible. Much love and gratitude to you; I almost grabbed some tissues.

Oh yes, don’t forget today’s need food: Maruchan Ramen Pork Flavor Noodles, pack of 24, $9.36. We can feed many families and their children with those noodles for $9.36. Bless all of you.

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